Are you always the bridesmaid?

Do you find that all of your closest girlfriends are dropping like flies around you getting married? Are you always the bridesmaid and never the bride? This is such an old saying because it's such an old situation for some gals to be in. Lots of girls out there find themselves staying single...even when they really don't want to be single. In the opinion of many of my guys friends...this is often for a reason. Some of my closest guys friends have let me in on some secrets as to why some girls who really want long term commitment can't get it.

5 NO-NOS THAT MIGHT BE GETTING IN THE WAY FOR YOU

DO YOU GET SERIOUS TOO QUICKLY?
Guys are driven away by this. Do you use words like love before you even really know a guy? Do you bring up marriage often or gawk at every toddler you see in a park? These are al sure ways to send a guy running in the other direction.

DO YOU COMPLAIN ALL THE TIME?
No one wants to be with a person who doesn't know how to be happy. Happiness is contagious...but so is misery. If you're often negative and constantly find yourself complaining...it's no wonder why you're driving all of the good guys away! No one wants to be around that.

ARE YOU INSECURE?
Even if you're secretly insecure about some things, voicing your insecurities constantly is a no-go with guys. If you are constantly doubting yourself, don't you think they too will start to doubt you eventually? If you are always highlighting your worst qualities, that's all that anyone's gonna be able to see eventually.

ARE YOU DEPENDENT?
Are you mostly interested in getting married so that you can depend on a man financially? If this is the case, you might be driving men away simply because of your lack of independence. We live in a world today where most women work for themselves...and WANT to. It's rarer than you might think for a guy to meet a girl who relies on him financially and that can be a very heavy burden.

There is no sure way to meet Mr. Right, but there are definitely sure ways to drive Mr. Right away. Keep that in mind!